Lately, I think I am coming to realize that with the girl I am, I need to learn to do some of the opposite.
"Real life is a funny thing, you know. In real life, saying the right thing at the right moment is beyond crucial. So crucial, in fact, that most of us start to hesitate for fear of saying the wrong thing at the wrong time. But lately what I've begun to fear more than that is letting the moment pass without saying anything ... There is a time for silence. There is a time for waiting your turn. But if you know how you feel and you so clearly know what you need to say, you'll know it. I don't think you should wait. I think you should speak now." (Taylor Swift)
I am the kind of girl that holds in her feelings so that I won't hurt someone else's. I don't often say what I should say, I don't often say how I am truly feeling, when I am hurt or angry. I say I am okay, that I am at fault, that I'm sorry, etc. instead of telling the other person what needs to be said. Which in the end, results in a lot of regret. I look back and wish I could tell someone so many things. I wish they knew so many things. I wish I had spoken up instead of holding back. I think that I need to learn to Speak Now.
