To All the Guys Out There:

Maybe I don't have the perfect body; I don't have the right butt, big boobs, rock-hard abs, long legs, or whatever else you want. Maybe my face isn't the right shape for you, or my eyes are too small or the wrong color. Maybe I don't have long, flirty eyelashes. Maybe my lips are thin and unkissable. Maybe my hair is out of place, or not cut right, or I have split ends, or I was too lazy to do something with it. Maybe my clothes don't always match perfectly, or I don't look nice in them.

Maybe I don't throw myself at you. Maybe I don't wear low-cut, see-through shirts and short skirts. Maybe I don't flirt shamelessly with you because maybe I don't know how. Maybe I don't find it necessary to have a guy at all times. Maybe I'm okay with having guys as just friends. Maybe I don't assume that every guy likes me.

Maybe you don't think I'm date-able. Maybe you don't think I'm good enough for you. Maybe you think I'm the little-sister-type. Maybe you don't think I have feelings. Maybe I'm unlovable. Maybe you're intimidated.

Maybe I respect myself. Maybe I don't want to sleep around and I want to save myself for my husband. Maybe I have high standards and you simply don't fit them because you're not good enough. Maybe I know I'm worth better. Maybe I'm mature enough to not need a boyfriend. Maybe I have my priorities straight. Maybe you're not good enough for me. Maybe I think I'm worth something more.

Maybe that means that I don't let you grab my butt. Maybe that means I don't touch yours. Maybe that means I don't feel the need to seduce you. Maybe that means I don't let you treat me like a harlot. Maybe that means I'm waiting to find a guy who respects me. Maybe you need the physical side to a relationship, but maybe I don't. Maybe that means you shouldn't check me out. Maybe I respect you enough not to tempt you.

Maybe I realize that God has someone out there specifically designed for me. Maybe I realize my husband is out there. Maybe I want to save myself fully for him. Maybe I'd rather wait for him than deal with you.

Maybe I'm not like other girls.